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5,000,000 COPIES SOLD WORLDWIDE • TRANSLATED IN MORE THAN 35 LANGUAGES

What is Violent Communication?
 
If “violent” means acting in ways that result in hurt or harm, then much of how we communicate—judging others, bullying, having racial bias, blaming, finger pointing, discriminating, speaking without listening, criticizing others or ourselves, name-calling, reacting when angry, using political rhetoric, being defensive or judging who’s “good/bad” or what’s “right/wrong” with people—could indeed be called “violent communication.”
 
What is Nonviolent Communication?
 
Nonviolent Communication is the integration of four things:
 
• Consciousness: a set of principles that support living a life of compassion, collaboration, courage, and authenticity
 
• Language: understanding how words contribute to connection or distance
 
• Communication: knowing how to ask for what we want, how to hear others even in disagreement, and how to move toward solutions that work for all
 
• Means of influence: sharing “power with others” rather than using “power over others”
 
Nonviolent Communication serves our desire to do three things:
 
• Increase our ability to live with choice, meaning, and connection
 
• Connect empathically with self and others to have more satisfying relationships
 
• Sharing of resources so everyone is able to benefit


Editorial Reviews

Review

Nonviolent Communication connects soul to soul, creating a lot of healing. It is the missing element in what we do.”  —Deepak Chopra, author of How To Know God

“Dr. Rosenberg
has brought the simplicity of successful communication into the foreground. No matter what issue you’re facing, his strategies for communicating with others will set you up to win every time.” Anthony Robbins,author, Awaken the Giant Within and Unlimited Power

“Marshall Rosenberg’s
dynamic communication techniques transform potential conflicts into peaceful dialogues and create compassionate connections. I highly recommend this book.”  — John Gray, Ph.D., author of Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus

"You have to be able to say, 'Where is this person coming from?' he says. 'What makes them tick? Why are they excited or frustrated by something that is happening, whether it’s about computing or beyond computing?' There’s far more to McCracken’s outstanding piece. Nadella gave him a close and honest look at both himself and Microsoft, and the result is a fun must-read." —
Ben Kerschberg, Forbes

"Upon becoming Microsoft CEO, Satya Nadella asked his top executives to read Marshall Rosenberg's
Nonviolent Communication. . . . If empathy as a measure of emotional IQ is a predictor of success, then Nadella hit the nail on the head by inculcating the corporate giant with the trait from top to bottom. Why else is empathy important? Microsoft is both a services and a product company, and its offerings have to resonate with users. Nadella states: 'You have to be able to say, "Where is this person coming from? What makes them tick? Why are they excited or frustrated by something that is happening, whether it's about computing or beyond computing?"' — Harry McCracken, Fast Company

"The 1 Book That Transformed Microsoft's Culture from Cutthroat to Creative." — 
Satya Nadella, Microsoft CEO

"Nadella's time as CEO was initially shaped by Marshall Rosenberg's 'Nonviolent Communication,' which he asked his top executives to read. This was the first indicator to senior leadership that Nadella would not operate like his predecessors" —
 Satya Nadella, Microsoft CEO, Business Insider

"The CEO of Microsoft, the most valuable company in the world, grounds himself and Microsoft's culture on ideas he's learned thanks to his reading habit. ‘I read a few pages here or a few pages there,’ Nadella told Fast Company. ‘There are a few books, of course, that you read end-to-end. But without books I can't live.’ Nadella's time as CEO was initially shaped by Marshall Rosenberg's ‘Nonviolent Communication,’ which he asked his top executives to read. This was the first indicator to senior leadership that Nadella would not operate like his predecessors. Nadella recommended it to his leadership team, symbolically differentiating his expectations from that of his predecessors. Nonviolent communication integrates qualities like compassion and effective communication to allow for better leadership. Rosenberg writes from a position of experience and research: He has started peace programs in places throughout the world that have experienced the effects of war, including Rwanda, Sri Lanka, Serbia, and Ireland. This book outlines the principles of peaceful conflict resolution. It's interesting to note that one of the concepts involves sharing power with others instead of using power over others. Nadella recommended it to his leadership team, symbolically differentiating his expectations from that of his predecessors. Reports have found that Microsoft used to have a conflict-heavy culture under Steve Ballmer — now there's nonviolent communication coming from the top." —
 Satya Nadella, Microsoft CEO, Business Insider

About the Author

Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD (1934–2015) founded and was for many years the Director of Educational Services for the Center for Nonviolent Communication, an international peacemaking organization. During his life he authored fifteen books, including the bestselling Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life (PuddleDancer Press), which has sold more than one million copies worldwide and has been translated into more than 30 languages, with more translations in the works.

Dr. Rosenberg has received a number of awards for his Nonviolent Communication work including:
2014: Champion of Forgiveness Award from the Worldwide Forgiveness Alliance
2006: Bridge of Peace Nonviolence Award from the Global Village Foundation
2005: Light of God Expressing in Society Award from the Association of Unity Churches
2004: Religious Science International Golden Works Award
2004: International Peace Prayer Day Man of Peace Award by the Healthy, Happy Holy (3HO) Organization
2002: Princess Anne of England and Chief of Police Restorative Justice Appreciation Award
2000: International Listening Association Listener of the Year Award

Dr. Rosenberg first used the NVC process in federally funded school integration projects to provide mediation and communication skills training during the 1960s. The Center for Nonviolent Communication, which he founded in 1984, now has hundreds of certified NVC trainers and supporters teaching NVC in more than sixty countries around the globe. A sought-after presenter, peacemaker and visionary leader, Dr. Rosenberg led NVC workshops and international intensive trainings for tens of thousands of people in over 60 countries across the world and provided training and initiated peace programs in many war-torn areas including Nigeria, Sierra Leone, and the Middle East.

He worked tirelessly with educators, managers, health care providers, lawyers, military officers, prisoners, police and prison officials, government officials, and individual families. With guitar and puppets in hand and a spiritual energy that filled a room, Marshall showed us how to create a more peaceful and satisfying world.

Reviews:

5.0 out of 5 stars Simple But Powerful

A. · September 25, 2025

This book completely changed how I look at conversations. It gives you easy tools to speak with kindness, really listen, and avoid misunderstandings. Super practical and helpful in everyday life.The book was clean when i took it out of the packaging so i am happy for that!!

5.0 out of 5 stars There's a basic framework to NVC: observe without evaluation, feeling, need, request.

H.J. · June 2, 2018

I got this on Audible a couple weeks ago and was pleasantly surprised with the quality of the book...so I bought it on kindle, too! I listened to the entire book within a day or so, and I started implementing the techniques on the first day! It made it so much easier to figure out what I really wanted out of sticky relationship situations, communicate in a way that is in line with my values, and not feel so bad if I receive venom in return (though usually these techniques nip the issues in the bud). The author's narration is perfect. A lot of the information seems intuitive...yet it does take work! - because, sadly, many if not most of us grow up in an environment with distorted social constructs, violence, and trauma. It takes a bit of "un-learningI have read dozens of "self-help" books and other resources on psychology, mental health, and relationships. Some of these were woo-woo fluff which missed the point, others were more specific to certain types of conflicts.....really they all say the same things from different perspectives... Rosenberg's "Nonviolent Communication: A language of life" is one of the books that stands on a shelf of its own, and one that I will surely revisit over time. The book lays things out clearly and simply (comprehensively). It's refreshingly un-biased. It provides practical tips and examples of how to execute NVC so that everyone's needs get met and we move toward harmony/real connection. There's a basic framework to NVC: observe without evaluation, feeling, need, request. NVZ is hard work, but it's a valuable skill!Nonviolent Communication is a great resource for anyone new to non-violent communication. I think this book is also an excellent "refresher" book for those Jedis out there who want to brush up on their communication skills while working on emotional intelligence and self-awareness. If you've ever been stuck in a victim/bully situation, co-dependency, any form of interpersonal abuse or trauma...or not - I think most if not all people can benefit from reading this book! - then you may find the information in this book to be healing and empowering (also humbling). Best wishes for your process of building a peaceful life, relationships, and personal autonomy :-)

5.0 out of 5 stars Basic & intuitive & deep - extremely valuable

J. · September 25, 2017

Yeah so chapter 1: we have feelings because we have needs... yes of course but ... who ever thinks about this. Book is full of intuitive & basic things that aren't obvious until pointed out. It's like a human user manual. Of course, everything we do is communication & we only exist in existence with others so effective communication is the backbone of human existence. This book reads like a negotiation text book & should be required reading in law school. I'm an attorney. I wish we'd read this in the first year of law school. It's applicable to all communication & reads also like a spiritual guidebook. I'm very much into those too. You can't really separate high vibration living in terms of professional vs personal ... to quote a very cool Los Angeles pastor I once negotiated a lease deal with: "you is who you is." And who we are always comes down to how we made others feel. Our success as humans in every way depends on this. They may not remember what you said or did, but they always remember how you made them feel. At the core of this concept is how we communicate, and that stems from how we feel. I realized recently in a difficult personal relationship that I should just shut up & work inside myself if I'm feeling triggered. If you ever communicate with others ... and wish for your relationships or your results to be more satisfying, this is a very valuable read. My brother recommended it to me over breakfast. He's a good honest man with very open and authentic communication. I understand I've struggled in this area, tending to circle around inside myself, isolate or run, so I finally got around to picking up this gem.

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K.C. · December 11, 2022

Really helped to improve my communication skills, enrich my life and I have a strategy for solving day to day conflicts.

Cutting Through the Fluff: Why 'Nonviolent Communication' Stands Out

A.K. · January 28, 2024

I'm usually hesitant about self-help books, yet find myself reading many. This might seem contradictory, but there's a reason. The ratio of substantial content to fluff in these books is often disappointingly high, leading to my reluctance. However, the few valuable insights gained from a lengthy book can be incredibly impactful, making the read worthwhile due to their long-term benefits.'Nonviolent Communication' excels in offering meaningful content. It provides practical advice that enriches daily personal and professional interactions. The book keeps a focus on a communication framework, while relating it a wide range of topics, including conflict resolution, negotiation, and parenting, offering actionable advice and real-life examples. I highly recommend it for its insightful and applicable guidance.

It is difficult to apply, yet to understand it is a breeze — so well written!

P.H.L. · July 12, 2023

This book is clear.It is simply so well structured, with quick summaries at the end of all chapters; almost every other chapter has a "NVC in Action" at the end, also, that presents a complete exchange between persons in conflict using NVC; each chapter is divided in bite-sized sections that follow the steps in the presentation of the topic. You may find the content hard to practice, but you will get all the concepts.The sheer quantity of examples is amazing, truly betrays the experience of the author using it in real life. Whenever I felt unsure wheter I understood a concept he came with a situation that made it clear, all in a style that is very engaging and readable.If you have any interest in Non Violent Communication, do pick this one up and read. It introduces and gives firm ground in presenting the topic to anyone.

How to Talk So People Actually Listen—And You Stay Friends!

W.P.P. · January 18, 2025

This book is like a masterclass in communication that should honestly be required reading for, well, everyone. Marshall Rosenberg breaks down the art of speaking and listening in a way that helps you avoid conflict and actually connect with others (even when you really don’t agree).The best part? It’s not just about avoiding fights; it’s about building stronger relationships. The steps are practical, with real-life examples that make you go, “Oh, I’ve totally been in that situation!” The focus on empathy and understanding makes it feel less like a self-help book and more like a life skill manual.A minor con? It takes some practice to apply the techniques, especially if you’re used to reacting emotionally. But hey, Rome wasn’t built in a day, right? Some parts might feel repetitive, but I think it’s intentional to drive home the key points.Overall, it’s a powerful guide to communicating in a way that reduces misunderstandings, resolves conflict, and fosters compassion. Highly recommend if you’re ready to level up your people skills!4.8/5

super book and full of practical advice

D.A.L.C. · April 23, 2023

Marshall can seem abrupt and brusk on videos I’ve seen, but it’s clear from the book that it’s all in aid of solving peoples problems and not beating around the bush, wasting time, and getting bogged down in insult throwing.This book is a step by step towards compassionate communication and I’m hoping that it will help me to be kinder and more understanding to myself and support others in conflict.Marshall also includes lots of real life examples to help you see how an ideal can work under the pressures of real life. It won’t be easy to put everything into practice but it’s worth a try!

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5,000,000 COPIES SOLD WORLDWIDE • TRANSLATED IN MORE THAN 35 LANGUAGES

What is Violent Communication?
 
If “violent” means acting in ways that result in hurt or harm, then much of how we communicate—judging others, bullying, having racial bias, blaming, finger pointing, discriminating, speaking without listening, criticizing others or ourselves, name-calling, reacting when angry, using political rhetoric, being defensive or judging who’s “good/bad” or what’s “right/wrong” with people—could indeed be called “violent communication.”
 
What is Nonviolent Communication?
 
Nonviolent Communication is the integration of four things:
 
• Consciousness: a set of principles that support living a life of compassion, collaboration, courage, and authenticity
 
• Language: understanding how words contribute to connection or distance
 
• Communication: knowing how to ask for what we want, how to hear others even in disagreement, and how to move toward solutions that work for all
 
• Means of influence: sharing “power with others” rather than using “power over others”
 
Nonviolent Communication serves our desire to do three things:
 
• Increase our ability to live with choice, meaning, and connection
 
• Connect empathically with self and others to have more satisfying relationships
 
• Sharing of resources so everyone is able to benefit


Editorial Reviews

Review

Nonviolent Communication connects soul to soul, creating a lot of healing. It is the missing element in what we do.”  —Deepak Chopra, author of How To Know God

“Dr. Rosenberg
has brought the simplicity of successful communication into the foreground. No matter what issue you’re facing, his strategies for communicating with others will set you up to win every time.” Anthony Robbins,author, Awaken the Giant Within and Unlimited Power

“Marshall Rosenberg’s
dynamic communication techniques transform potential conflicts into peaceful dialogues and create compassionate connections. I highly recommend this book.”  — John Gray, Ph.D., author of Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus

"You have to be able to say, 'Where is this person coming from?' he says. 'What makes them tick? Why are they excited or frustrated by something that is happening, whether it’s about computing or beyond computing?' There’s far more to McCracken’s outstanding piece. Nadella gave him a close and honest look at both himself and Microsoft, and the result is a fun must-read." —
Ben Kerschberg, Forbes

"Upon becoming Microsoft CEO, Satya Nadella asked his top executives to read Marshall Rosenberg's
Nonviolent Communication. . . . If empathy as a measure of emotional IQ is a predictor of success, then Nadella hit the nail on the head by inculcating the corporate giant with the trait from top to bottom. Why else is empathy important? Microsoft is both a services and a product company, and its offerings have to resonate with users. Nadella states: 'You have to be able to say, "Where is this person coming from? What makes them tick? Why are they excited or frustrated by something that is happening, whether it's about computing or beyond computing?"' — Harry McCracken, Fast Company

"The 1 Book That Transformed Microsoft's Culture from Cutthroat to Creative." — 
Satya Nadella, Microsoft CEO

"Nadella's time as CEO was initially shaped by Marshall Rosenberg's 'Nonviolent Communication,' which he asked his top executives to read. This was the first indicator to senior leadership that Nadella would not operate like his predecessors" —
 Satya Nadella, Microsoft CEO, Business Insider

"The CEO of Microsoft, the most valuable company in the world, grounds himself and Microsoft's culture on ideas he's learned thanks to his reading habit. ‘I read a few pages here or a few pages there,’ Nadella told Fast Company. ‘There are a few books, of course, that you read end-to-end. But without books I can't live.’ Nadella's time as CEO was initially shaped by Marshall Rosenberg's ‘Nonviolent Communication,’ which he asked his top executives to read. This was the first indicator to senior leadership that Nadella would not operate like his predecessors. Nadella recommended it to his leadership team, symbolically differentiating his expectations from that of his predecessors. Nonviolent communication integrates qualities like compassion and effective communication to allow for better leadership. Rosenberg writes from a position of experience and research: He has started peace programs in places throughout the world that have experienced the effects of war, including Rwanda, Sri Lanka, Serbia, and Ireland. This book outlines the principles of peaceful conflict resolution. It's interesting to note that one of the concepts involves sharing power with others instead of using power over others. Nadella recommended it to his leadership team, symbolically differentiating his expectations from that of his predecessors. Reports have found that Microsoft used to have a conflict-heavy culture under Steve Ballmer — now there's nonviolent communication coming from the top." —
 Satya Nadella, Microsoft CEO, Business Insider

About the Author

Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD (1934–2015) founded and was for many years the Director of Educational Services for the Center for Nonviolent Communication, an international peacemaking organization. During his life he authored fifteen books, including the bestselling Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life (PuddleDancer Press), which has sold more than one million copies worldwide and has been translated into more than 30 languages, with more translations in the works.

Dr. Rosenberg has received a number of awards for his Nonviolent Communication work including:
2014: Champion of Forgiveness Award from the Worldwide Forgiveness Alliance
2006: Bridge of Peace Nonviolence Award from the Global Village Foundation
2005: Light of God Expressing in Society Award from the Association of Unity Churches
2004: Religious Science International Golden Works Award
2004: International Peace Prayer Day Man of Peace Award by the Healthy, Happy Holy (3HO) Organization
2002: Princess Anne of England and Chief of Police Restorative Justice Appreciation Award
2000: International Listening Association Listener of the Year Award

Dr. Rosenberg first used the NVC process in federally funded school integration projects to provide mediation and communication skills training during the 1960s. The Center for Nonviolent Communication, which he founded in 1984, now has hundreds of certified NVC trainers and supporters teaching NVC in more than sixty countries around the globe. A sought-after presenter, peacemaker and visionary leader, Dr. Rosenberg led NVC workshops and international intensive trainings for tens of thousands of people in over 60 countries across the world and provided training and initiated peace programs in many war-torn areas including Nigeria, Sierra Leone, and the Middle East.

He worked tirelessly with educators, managers, health care providers, lawyers, military officers, prisoners, police and prison officials, government officials, and individual families. With guitar and puppets in hand and a spiritual energy that filled a room, Marshall showed us how to create a more peaceful and satisfying world.

Reviews:

5.0 out of 5 stars Simple But Powerful

A. · September 25, 2025

This book completely changed how I look at conversations. It gives you easy tools to speak with kindness, really listen, and avoid misunderstandings. Super practical and helpful in everyday life.The book was clean when i took it out of the packaging so i am happy for that!!

5.0 out of 5 stars There's a basic framework to NVC: observe without evaluation, feeling, need, request.

H.J. · June 2, 2018

I got this on Audible a couple weeks ago and was pleasantly surprised with the quality of the book...so I bought it on kindle, too! I listened to the entire book within a day or so, and I started implementing the techniques on the first day! It made it so much easier to figure out what I really wanted out of sticky relationship situations, communicate in a way that is in line with my values, and not feel so bad if I receive venom in return (though usually these techniques nip the issues in the bud). The author's narration is perfect. A lot of the information seems intuitive...yet it does take work! - because, sadly, many if not most of us grow up in an environment with distorted social constructs, violence, and trauma. It takes a bit of "un-learningI have read dozens of "self-help" books and other resources on psychology, mental health, and relationships. Some of these were woo-woo fluff which missed the point, others were more specific to certain types of conflicts.....really they all say the same things from different perspectives... Rosenberg's "Nonviolent Communication: A language of life" is one of the books that stands on a shelf of its own, and one that I will surely revisit over time. The book lays things out clearly and simply (comprehensively). It's refreshingly un-biased. It provides practical tips and examples of how to execute NVC so that everyone's needs get met and we move toward harmony/real connection. There's a basic framework to NVC: observe without evaluation, feeling, need, request. NVZ is hard work, but it's a valuable skill!Nonviolent Communication is a great resource for anyone new to non-violent communication. I think this book is also an excellent "refresher" book for those Jedis out there who want to brush up on their communication skills while working on emotional intelligence and self-awareness. If you've ever been stuck in a victim/bully situation, co-dependency, any form of interpersonal abuse or trauma...or not - I think most if not all people can benefit from reading this book! - then you may find the information in this book to be healing and empowering (also humbling). Best wishes for your process of building a peaceful life, relationships, and personal autonomy :-)

5.0 out of 5 stars Basic & intuitive & deep - extremely valuable

J. · September 25, 2017

Yeah so chapter 1: we have feelings because we have needs... yes of course but ... who ever thinks about this. Book is full of intuitive & basic things that aren't obvious until pointed out. It's like a human user manual. Of course, everything we do is communication & we only exist in existence with others so effective communication is the backbone of human existence. This book reads like a negotiation text book & should be required reading in law school. I'm an attorney. I wish we'd read this in the first year of law school. It's applicable to all communication & reads also like a spiritual guidebook. I'm very much into those too. You can't really separate high vibration living in terms of professional vs personal ... to quote a very cool Los Angeles pastor I once negotiated a lease deal with: "you is who you is." And who we are always comes down to how we made others feel. Our success as humans in every way depends on this. They may not remember what you said or did, but they always remember how you made them feel. At the core of this concept is how we communicate, and that stems from how we feel. I realized recently in a difficult personal relationship that I should just shut up & work inside myself if I'm feeling triggered. If you ever communicate with others ... and wish for your relationships or your results to be more satisfying, this is a very valuable read. My brother recommended it to me over breakfast. He's a good honest man with very open and authentic communication. I understand I've struggled in this area, tending to circle around inside myself, isolate or run, so I finally got around to picking up this gem.

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K.C. · December 11, 2022

Really helped to improve my communication skills, enrich my life and I have a strategy for solving day to day conflicts.

Cutting Through the Fluff: Why 'Nonviolent Communication' Stands Out

A.K. · January 28, 2024

I'm usually hesitant about self-help books, yet find myself reading many. This might seem contradictory, but there's a reason. The ratio of substantial content to fluff in these books is often disappointingly high, leading to my reluctance. However, the few valuable insights gained from a lengthy book can be incredibly impactful, making the read worthwhile due to their long-term benefits.'Nonviolent Communication' excels in offering meaningful content. It provides practical advice that enriches daily personal and professional interactions. The book keeps a focus on a communication framework, while relating it a wide range of topics, including conflict resolution, negotiation, and parenting, offering actionable advice and real-life examples. I highly recommend it for its insightful and applicable guidance.

It is difficult to apply, yet to understand it is a breeze — so well written!

P.H.L. · July 12, 2023

This book is clear.It is simply so well structured, with quick summaries at the end of all chapters; almost every other chapter has a "NVC in Action" at the end, also, that presents a complete exchange between persons in conflict using NVC; each chapter is divided in bite-sized sections that follow the steps in the presentation of the topic. You may find the content hard to practice, but you will get all the concepts.The sheer quantity of examples is amazing, truly betrays the experience of the author using it in real life. Whenever I felt unsure wheter I understood a concept he came with a situation that made it clear, all in a style that is very engaging and readable.If you have any interest in Non Violent Communication, do pick this one up and read. It introduces and gives firm ground in presenting the topic to anyone.

How to Talk So People Actually Listen—And You Stay Friends!

W.P.P. · January 18, 2025

This book is like a masterclass in communication that should honestly be required reading for, well, everyone. Marshall Rosenberg breaks down the art of speaking and listening in a way that helps you avoid conflict and actually connect with others (even when you really don’t agree).The best part? It’s not just about avoiding fights; it’s about building stronger relationships. The steps are practical, with real-life examples that make you go, “Oh, I’ve totally been in that situation!” The focus on empathy and understanding makes it feel less like a self-help book and more like a life skill manual.A minor con? It takes some practice to apply the techniques, especially if you’re used to reacting emotionally. But hey, Rome wasn’t built in a day, right? Some parts might feel repetitive, but I think it’s intentional to drive home the key points.Overall, it’s a powerful guide to communicating in a way that reduces misunderstandings, resolves conflict, and fosters compassion. Highly recommend if you’re ready to level up your people skills!4.8/5

super book and full of practical advice

D.A.L.C. · April 23, 2023

Marshall can seem abrupt and brusk on videos I’ve seen, but it’s clear from the book that it’s all in aid of solving peoples problems and not beating around the bush, wasting time, and getting bogged down in insult throwing.This book is a step by step towards compassionate communication and I’m hoping that it will help me to be kinder and more understanding to myself and support others in conflict.Marshall also includes lots of real life examples to help you see how an ideal can work under the pressures of real life. It won’t be easy to put everything into practice but it’s worth a try!

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