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5.0 out of 5 stars A thought-provoking exploration on loneliness
The lazy and common definition of loneliness is that of being alone, but as the author points out, we are often lonely even when together with others — e.g., at a busy cafe or at an overcrowded party. Instead, loneliness is a subjective feeling of unmet relationship needs, which can be present in any social setting.The feeling of loneliness is subject to how we process an experience: sitting alone at a cafe will be perceived by some as a productive solitude (together with oneself), and as feeling isolation by others or even the same person at a different time. Further, loneliness can feed on itself through heightened and idealized expectations from social interactions, fear of being vulnerable, and mistrust in the intention of others.A thought-provoking exploration. While it is not meant or offers direct advice for addressing loneliness, the discussion naturally leads to useful insights on how to identify it and, potentially, adopt strategies overcome it both with yourself and those around you.
5.0 out of 5 stars Words to express what I could not
An illuminating look into loneliness. It even helped me look into and explore my own.A hidden gem.
5.0 out of 5 stars A solid philosophical work
This is a solid philosophical work on loneliness. It combines conceptual analysis with empirical findings, which is what you'd generally expect from a modern philosopher. The book is short, but pretty dense. I'm just going to list the main ideas for those of you who want to get a sense about the discussions in this book:- There's an important distinction between "alone" and "lonely": the first is physical, the other is emotional; you can be at a family dinner (not alone) but still feel lonely, and you can very well be alone in your room and not feel lonely- Loneliness can be understood as an emotion; from an evolutionary standpoint, the advantage of having this emotion is that it tells you that your social needs are not being met- The main factor correlated with /causing loneliness is lack of trust in other people (I recommend watching Mad Men, which explores exactly this idea, I think); other factors: your expect too much from your social interactions, you are too critical of yourselves and others in social situations, you are too self-absorbed- Loneliness shows why friendship and love are important- It's contentious whether or not modern individualism is one of the main causes of loneliness- Solitude is a positive form of loneliness which can help an individual get in touch with his/her inner self, and it can also help you be more creative; loneliness is being alone with yourself, while solitude is being together with yourself- The text ends on a Sartrian key: Your loneliness is your loneliness. You've gotten yourself into that shiz (through a long chain of poor decisions), and you need to take responsibility for that and fix it yourself. As Svendsen puts it: don't expect others to remedy your loneliness. No one has a right to a life without loneliness, just as no one has a right to be happy.
Examine and inspect closely and thoroughly of the loneliness from different angles
I found out about some of the mysteries of my life.
Thoughtful book that delves into the origin of our loneliness and how to make peace with it
The book delves deep into the pervasive sense of isolation that characterizes modern life. The author thoughtfully examines the roots and repercussions of loneliness, blending philosophical inquiry with contemporary societal analysis. He explores how technological advancements, urbanization, and shifting social structures contribute to our increasing disconnection from others and ourselves.Svendsen doesn't just identify the problem; he also offers insightful reflections on potential pathways to foster genuine connections and cultivate inner contentment. By intertwining personal anecdotes with scholarly research, the book invites readers to introspect and reconsider their own relationships with solitude and community.Overall, the book is a compelling and timely exploration that challenges readers to navigate the delicate balance between being alone and feeling lonely. It's a valuable read for anyone seeking to understand the emotional landscapes of the 21st century and striving to build more meaningful connections in an increasingly fragmented world.
I'm sure the book is great but it was delivered to the wrong place
Delivery instructions weren't followed so it was left 'in a porch' even though the address has no porch. I'm sure the book is excellent though.Can't find anywhere on Bolo to complain about this
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Description:
Editorial Reviews
Reviews:
5.0 out of 5 stars A thought-provoking exploration on loneliness
The lazy and common definition of loneliness is that of being alone, but as the author points out, we are often lonely even when together with others — e.g., at a busy cafe or at an overcrowded party. Instead, loneliness is a subjective feeling of unmet relationship needs, which can be present in any social setting.The feeling of loneliness is subject to how we process an experience: sitting alone at a cafe will be perceived by some as a productive solitude (together with oneself), and as feeling isolation by others or even the same person at a different time. Further, loneliness can feed on itself through heightened and idealized expectations from social interactions, fear of being vulnerable, and mistrust in the intention of others.A thought-provoking exploration. While it is not meant or offers direct advice for addressing loneliness, the discussion naturally leads to useful insights on how to identify it and, potentially, adopt strategies overcome it both with yourself and those around you.
5.0 out of 5 stars Words to express what I could not
An illuminating look into loneliness. It even helped me look into and explore my own.A hidden gem.
5.0 out of 5 stars A solid philosophical work
This is a solid philosophical work on loneliness. It combines conceptual analysis with empirical findings, which is what you'd generally expect from a modern philosopher. The book is short, but pretty dense. I'm just going to list the main ideas for those of you who want to get a sense about the discussions in this book:- There's an important distinction between "alone" and "lonely": the first is physical, the other is emotional; you can be at a family dinner (not alone) but still feel lonely, and you can very well be alone in your room and not feel lonely- Loneliness can be understood as an emotion; from an evolutionary standpoint, the advantage of having this emotion is that it tells you that your social needs are not being met- The main factor correlated with /causing loneliness is lack of trust in other people (I recommend watching Mad Men, which explores exactly this idea, I think); other factors: your expect too much from your social interactions, you are too critical of yourselves and others in social situations, you are too self-absorbed- Loneliness shows why friendship and love are important- It's contentious whether or not modern individualism is one of the main causes of loneliness- Solitude is a positive form of loneliness which can help an individual get in touch with his/her inner self, and it can also help you be more creative; loneliness is being alone with yourself, while solitude is being together with yourself- The text ends on a Sartrian key: Your loneliness is your loneliness. You've gotten yourself into that shiz (through a long chain of poor decisions), and you need to take responsibility for that and fix it yourself. As Svendsen puts it: don't expect others to remedy your loneliness. No one has a right to a life without loneliness, just as no one has a right to be happy.
Examine and inspect closely and thoroughly of the loneliness from different angles
I found out about some of the mysteries of my life.
Thoughtful book that delves into the origin of our loneliness and how to make peace with it
The book delves deep into the pervasive sense of isolation that characterizes modern life. The author thoughtfully examines the roots and repercussions of loneliness, blending philosophical inquiry with contemporary societal analysis. He explores how technological advancements, urbanization, and shifting social structures contribute to our increasing disconnection from others and ourselves.Svendsen doesn't just identify the problem; he also offers insightful reflections on potential pathways to foster genuine connections and cultivate inner contentment. By intertwining personal anecdotes with scholarly research, the book invites readers to introspect and reconsider their own relationships with solitude and community.Overall, the book is a compelling and timely exploration that challenges readers to navigate the delicate balance between being alone and feeling lonely. It's a valuable read for anyone seeking to understand the emotional landscapes of the 21st century and striving to build more meaningful connections in an increasingly fragmented world.
I'm sure the book is great but it was delivered to the wrong place
Delivery instructions weren't followed so it was left 'in a porch' even though the address has no porch. I'm sure the book is excellent though.Can't find anywhere on Bolo to complain about this
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