Review
Core Transformation offers a profound way to touch the depths of our own soulfulness. I had an immediate and deep experience of self-love with it. --John Bradshaw, author, Creating Love
One of the most important works I have come across in any field, Core Transformation should be adopted as the principal therapy by every therapist in the country, understood and practiced by everyone in the helping and legal professions, as well as parents and teachers. I stand in awe at the simplicity, clarity and directness of a work of such magnitude, and will do all I can to promote it. --Joseph Chilton Pearce, author, The Crack in the Cosmic Egg, The Magical Child, Evolution's End
I am astounded. Suddenly we have a bridge from psychopathology (or plain human problems) to enlightenment. There it stands, every beam in place and traffic already passing over it. I know therapist types will make ready use of it, and I hope religions will embrace the profound implications of this fine new bridge into their territory. --Wilson Van Dusen, Ph.D, former Chief Psychologist at Mendocino State Hospital, CA
Core Transformation is a brilliant book about a brilliant process. It quickly takes you to the core of your being. What a powerful and simple gift! I highly recommend it to anyone wanting to achieve higher states of love, peace and joy! -Jack Canfield, President, Self Esteem Seminars, author, Chicken Soup for the Soul
The way to a man and woman s heart is through this book. Core Transformation will help you turn your limitations inside out, enabling you to experience yourself in a way you never dreamed possible. -Michele Weiner-Davis, author, Divorce Busting
Core Transformation takes us beyond assumed boundaries, into the virgin territories of the self-a place of greater courage and love, into the well-spring of authenticity, the core of being. -Dan Millman, author, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior and The Life You Were Born to Live
This book will take you there. Compassionately, clearly and interestingly written, with just the right balance of idea and procedure. There is no limit to the good Core Transformation could end up doing. --Huth Prather, author, Notes to Myself
This book will help you make changes that lead directly to increased personal effectiveness. I recommend Core Transformation to anyone in business who wants to improve results. --Dan Thomas, Ph.D., former Professor, Harvard and Stanford Business Schools; author of Business Sense
From the Author
In this book you will be invited to identify the behaviors, feelings and responses you like least in yourself, and use them to take yourself on a remarkably healing and uplifting personal journey within, to the depths of your beingness. This journey is called the Core Transformation Process. The material presented in this book is a breakthrough for me both personally and professionally, and I believe it is a breakthrough in the field of personal growth and psychology. As I explored and developed the Core Transformation Process with clients and with myself, I began to have a sense of awe and reverence for what I witnessed. Powerfully transforming states of consciousness, which I call Core States, were naturally emerging. These states seemed to be identical to the states of consciousness many people strive for in spiritual traditions, described as transcendent or spiritual experiences. Through doing the Core Transformation Process these states became more than a temporary high--they became the basis for living from a new "center."
The way these experiences emerged was surprising and unexpected. I had no intention of developing a process with spiritual overtones. My goal was to develop a process that went deep enough to the core of our experience to be effective with everything from seemingly trivial problems to our biggest life issues. I wanted something that went deeper than what I had known Before--both for myself and for my clients.
In this search I gave myself the challenge of working with people who had some major limitation they hadn't been able to change. The issues they dealt with varied widely from chronic pain, abuse, bulimia, rage, sexual difficulties, codependency, to the man who felt he always held himself back from living his full potential.
In seeking to find what would transform these major life issues I stumbled upon a process that went far beyond my original goals. Most of the people I took through it got the results they wanted in their lives--either complete changes or significant movement in the direction they desired. But beyond that, they wrote me cards and letters telling me things like, "It's a miracle," or, "Everything has changed." One person who didn't get what he had specifically asked for said, "I got something better; something wonderful is happening that's hard to put into words."
Discovering these incredibly powerful Core States at the center of every inner part in myself and others has certainly transformed my sense of the spiritual nature within each of us. This spiritual nature is not a belief system, it is an experience, and I want to acknowledge that you may prefer to describe your experience in other terms. You do not need to have a spiritual belief to benefit from the Core Transformation Process. When we do this process with individual clients, or in workshops, we often do not talk about what kind of experience to expect. You will get equally strong results whether you describe your experience as spiritual, or in other terms that fit better for you.
...As you do these exercises, be gentle and patient with yourself. As you read each step, we will be there with you, guiding you in what may be the kindest thing you have done for yourself in some time. The process is simple and straightforward. First we will assist you in welcoming the parts of yourself that you want to change--they are about to become your strongest and most helpful allies.
From the Back Cover
Imagine your limitations becoming a doorway to states often called "Inner Peace," "Joy," "Love," or "Oneness." Core Transformation meets the deepest strivings of our times: to heal our problems and develop spiritually. "Oneness and Being," the goal of most psycho-spiritual approaches, is no longer a mysterious ideal. Core Transformation makes it tangible, even inevitable. This simple ten-step process offers a gentle, compassionate way to melt limitations rather than fight them. Specific changes attributed to the Core Transformation process include career advances, healing relationships, stopping smoking, healing "problem" emotions, improving health, overcoming depression, and developing an underlying sense of well-being. THIS BOOK SHOWS YOU HOW!
"My life has changed in so many ways...sometimes I just want to pinch myself and say, 'Is this real?' because life is happier every day...." (p.71)
"...the results are spectacular. I've been attracting people that are focused, not upset, not angry. I no longer waste energy...." (p.58)
"The most exciting part was the discovery that I didn't have to go outside myself to get inner peace...." (p.98)
About the Author
Connirae Andreas, PhD, is an internationally known trainer and developer of NLP whose work has helped define and broaden the field. Dr. Andreas is best known for her development of the groundbreaking Core Transformation process, a method of gentle and profound transformation through accessing states of Peace, Oneness, and Presence. She is co-author of many books and training manuals, including Heart of the Mind, an engaging introduction and "handbook" of key NLP methods. She and husband, Steve Andreas, were the first to create systematic and precise training manuals for NLP Practitioner and Master Practitioner trainings, setting the standard for quality and used by trainers worldwide. Their work has been translated into over 15 languages. Connirae's developments also include the NLP grief process, timeline change work, advanced language patterns, and parenting methods. With her most recent work, the Wholeness Process, Connirae once again has created a simple and precise method for experiencing what spiritual teachings talk about, in such a way that it transforms and heals our life "suffering."
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(Client report, from Chapter 12: A Demonstration with Lisa, which follows the complete verbatim demonstration.) "After the seminar I didn't think about the change, I just went about my life, but I have found that my response (at work) is entirely different. The feeling that I used to get in my heart didn't happen. I used to have incredible pain in my chest because I didn't know what to do. The choking feeling that I used to get in my throat didn't happen. This time, without even thinking about it, I started breathing really deeply--where before I didn't breathe. Instead of the old voice in my head that said, 'It's impossible,' Now I have a knowing that says, 'Yes, we can do something. I will work on it.'
"Before doing the Core Transformation Process, I had tried everything. I have been studying self-help methods since I was sixteen. I tried "being positive." I told myself that everything would work out fine. That didn't work at all. It drained me. No one believed me because I didn't believe it. Now I feel much more neutral. I'm able to see everyone's side and I don't get into the emotions of it. And I love my job again! I had been thinking I needed a new career, and that was really scary because I'm good at this and I like it. It was very disturbing to me to think about changing careers. So now I have my life back.
"What I love is that when I did the technique, I changed and it has lasted. I don't have to consciously do anything; it's all automatic. It's like I have a new me. An unexpected bonus was that I stopped smoking as a result of the Core Transformation Process. What happened is that afterwards I didn't want a cigarette! The desire was gone! I didn't decide to quit, I just didn't want one.
"I have been dating the same person for 10 years... and there was a lot of yuck happening in the relationship. Now, we're living together! After the process I was able to communicate with my partner about how I wanted to relate and how I wanted life to be. Then it was a matter of 'Do you want to paint this picture with me, and does this picture match your picture?' Before, my attitude was 'If you don't want it, I'll be heartbroken.' My new attitude is 'It's okay, because I'm now me and I'm whole. And I can have a life whether you want to be in it or not.' And what's even greater is that once I became whole and let him go, he came to me!"