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'My Two Elaines provides real life lessons about how to cope and survive each day with loving care, particularly when communica-tion is lost. Marty helps caregivers work through their guilt and sheds light on making difficult decisions when professional care is needed for a loved one. Most of all, Marty brings us an amazing story of love, understanding, and hope. It is one of the most moving and powerful stories I've read.' -- Julie Tombari, administrator, New Day Adult Care Center, North Palm Beach, Florida
'At one moment this book is a heart-wrenching account of the devastating toll of Alzheimer's, and the next moment it is a heart rending love story. The minute you are holding your breath at the brutality of the disease, Marty rescues you with a concrete, doable message that can lead to lovely moments of joy. No health-care pro-fessional, family member, or caregiver should be without it.' -- Dawn Adler, director, Ovation Adult Day Services, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, coauthor of Illuminate: An Integrated Curriculum for Early Memory Loss Programs
'I encourage my fellow health-care professionals to read and share this book.' -- Judy Beiler, RN, director, Global and Executive Health Program, Aurora Health Care
'I only wish my father had this book to help him during my own mother's illness.' -- Paula Kiely, city librarian, Milwaukee Public Library
'If you or someone you know is a caregiver, this is a must-read. Your loved one really does become a different person. As I learned from my mom's dementia, learning how to deal with her was key to ev-eryone's sanity. There are many helpful hints here.' -- Bonnie Blair, five-time Olympic gold medalist
'Marty has truly captured the essence of loving and caring for some-body with this disease. His book is insightful, thoughtful, heart-warming, and respectful. Marty's sense of humor and abundant pa-tience surely are a blessing for Elaine.' -- Scott McFadden, president and CEO, Lutheran Home and Harwood Place, Milwaukee, Wisconsin
'Marty Schreiber has written a book that is invaluable to the Alz-heimer's community. His personal experience (and wisdom gained) as a caregiver is shared in such an honest and impactful way that it should be mandatory reading for all individuals who step forward in this capacity.' -- David Simbro, senior vice president, Northwestern Mutual former member, Alzheimer’s Association Board of Directors
'Marty shares his personal story with dignity and grace. My Two Elaines helps the caregiver realize you must take care of yourself, have a sense of humor, and take advantage of help to survive the stressful days ahead. It is a great resource for families.' -- Linda Cody, director, Village Walk Senior Living, Patchogue, New York
'This book is a godsend for anyone caring for a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer's.' -- Booklist
'This wonderful book gives a personal perspective of a couple's jour-ney with Alzheimer's disease as they reach out for help and support. The personal sharing, the compelling development of Marty, and his insights as a caregiver all provide for an important message.' -- Michael Malone, MD, medical director, Aurora Senior Services chair, Public Policy Committee, American Geriatrics Society
'To be complete, stories about Alzheimer's disease and caregiving must touch on both defeats and triumphs. In My Two Elaines, Gov-ernor Schreiber stirs the hearts of readers both with great suffering and great love inherent to the caregiving journey, lightening the load with humor. He introduces us not only to the woman he mar-ried and the person she became after Alzheimer's but also to the extraordinary individual who loves them both: her Marty.' -- Daniel C. Potts, MD, FAAN, attending neurologist, Tuscaloosa VA Medical Center, Alabama founder and president, Cognitive Dynamics Foundation
'With poignant clarity and candor, Schreiber provides readers with insight into the often incomprehensible world of a person living with Alzheimer's disease as well as the many challenges faced by family caregivers. My Two Elaines is easily integrated into health-care curriculum, sparking rich discussions related to dementia, caregiving, anticipatory grief, advance care planning, and commu-nity support services. Feedback has been overwhelmingly positive, with many learners expressing gratitude for the opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of the family caregiver experience.' -- Dr. Stacy Barnes, Director, Wisconsin Geriatric Education Center, Marquette University
'Your book is now at the top of my list; written from the heart, rein-forcing, yet honest.' -- Susan M. Gross, education and family care specialist, Alzheimer’s Association North Central Texas Chapter
About the Author
Former Wisconsin Governor Martin J. Schreiber is an award-winning crusader for Alzheimer's caregivers and persons with dementia. Reaching audiences nationwide at live events and via media, he uses humor and compassion to share lessons from his ongoing, decade-plus journey as a caregiver. Since 2017, Schreiber has given more than 400 presentations to audiences that include family and professional caregivers, healthcare workers, social workers, nursing and pharmacy students, civic and business leaders, senior community residents, library patrons, and more.
Prior to writing My Two Elaines--and while he still cared for his wife at home--Schreiber helped the Alzheimer's Association launch Operation: Stronger Together, beginning in 2015. This multiyear awareness program has helped the Southeastern Wisconsin chapter connect record numbers of families to education and resources that are vital to successful caregiving.
Schreiber also collaborated with Wisconsin's state government and business groups to help create the Dementia-Friendly Employers Toolkit, which is used by human resources departments and employee assistance programs. Such initiatives have led to Schreiber being recognized with awards from the Alzheimer’s Association and other organizations.
Schreiber's work on behalf of older citizens dates back decades, to his 16 years in public service as a state senator, lieutenant governor, and governor, where he focused on improved quality for nursing home care and development of the in-home Community Care Organization. He went on to become a successful insurance executive and publisher before he started his own government relations firm in 1988.
Schreiber attended Valparaiso University and the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, and earned a doctorate of law from Marquette University.
He and his wife, Elaine, are the parents of four children, Kathryn Lyon, Martin Schreiber, Kristine Haas, and Matt Schreiber. They have 13 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren.
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5.0 out of 5 stars The Caregiver’s Journey: An Emotional & Profound Pivot from What Was to What Is
"My Two Elaines" by Martin J. Schreiber is a moving and insightful account of one man's journey through the challenging and often heartbreaking landscape of Alzheimer's disease. As a former governor of Wisconsin, Schreiber is no stranger to leadership and resilience, but nothing could have prepared him for the deeply personal and transformative experience of caring for his wife, Elaine, as she battled Alzheimer's. This book is not only a tribute to Elaine but also a beacon of hope and guidance for other caregivers navigating similar paths.The central theme of "My Two Elaines" is the necessity of embracing the new reality of a loved one with dementia. Schreiber eloquently describes the process of letting go of the person you once knew and learning to connect with the new person they have become. This shift in perspective is crucial for both the patient and the caregiver, as it allows for a more compassionate and effective approach to care. Schreiber emphasizes that imposing our previous expectations on a loved one with dementia only leads to frustration and heartache. Instead, he advocates for "rolling with it," honoring the emotions and perceptions of those with cognitive diseases, even as they fluctuate from day to day.One of the most powerful aspects of the book is Schreiber's candid discussion of the dual nature of caregiving. He poignantly illustrates that there are two patients in this scenario: the person with Alzheimer's and the caregiver. Schreiber's honesty about his own struggles and the toll caregiving took on his physical and emotional well-being is both humbling and inspiring. He underscores the importance of self-care for caregivers, a message that cannot be overstated. Caregivers must prioritize their health and well-being to provide the best care possible for their loved ones.Schreiber's journey as a caregiver transformed him in profound ways, making him a "wounded prophet" who can empathize deeply with others facing similar challenges. His reflections on how caregiving requires immense love, understanding, and humility resonate deeply. There are no quick fixes or instant gratifications in this role; it demands a sacrifice of self and an unwavering commitment to the well-being of another.A standout feature of the book is the Q&A section with neuropsychologist Dr. Michelle Braun. This segment is a treasure trove of practical advice and insights, offering readers concrete strategies to empower themselves as advocates for their loved ones and their own needs. Dr. Braun's expertise and compassionate approach provide invaluable guidance on navigating the complex emotional and logistical challenges of caregiving."My Two Elaines" is peppered with entries from Elaine's journal, offering a poignant glimpse into her perspective and experiences. These entries add a deeply personal and humanizing touch to the narrative, reminding readers that behind the clinical diagnosis of Alzheimer's lies a unique individual with her own thoughts, feelings, and memories.Schreiber's candid reflections on what he wishes he had known earlier and done differently are particularly valuable. These insights offer readers a chance to learn from his experiences and potentially avoid some of the pitfalls he encountered. His emphasis on the importance of understanding Alzheimer's disease as a prerequisite for effective caregiving is a crucial takeaway. Knowledge is power, and understanding the disease can help caregivers cope with the many challenges they face.The book's afterword by Tom Hvalacek, former executive director of the Alzheimer's Association of Wisconsin, further reinforces the themes of resilience, adaptation, and the importance of support networks. Hvalacek introduces the concept of "the pivot," the emotional shift caregivers must make to let go of the person they once knew and embrace the new reality of their loved one's condition. This pivot is one of the hardest aspects of caregiving but is essential for emotional survival and the ability to continue providing compassionate care."My Two Elaines" is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the enduring power of love. Schreiber's journey is a beacon of hope for all caregivers, offering practical advice, emotional support, and a deep sense of shared experience. It is a must-read for anyone touched by Alzheimer's, providing both solace and inspiration in the face of one of life's most challenging journeys.
5.0 out of 5 stars Dementia book
This is a great book. It has helped me so much!
4.0 out of 5 stars Good addition to my Alzheimers collection.
I bought about 8 to 12 books on those caring for Alzheimer's loved ones from Bolo. This was a well-written book that was interesting to read, and I recommend for those caring for someone with this disease. Why didn't I give it a 5 star? I compare all my recent Alzheimer memoirs to On Pluto: Inside the Mind of Alzheimers. That book was written by the person suffering from the disease, followed by family's input at the end. That was my favorite Alzheimer's book out of the 8 to 12 I ordered.
5.0 out of 5 stars informative
Helpful information andadditional resources are sharedWell explained strategies for caregivers that might help to ease the journey for both patient and caregiver
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent condition and quick delivery
Love this book - heartwarming if you are dealing with anyone who has any type of dementia.
5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful
Gave this as a gift and she said it is very helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Informative But Dry
Although the book is well written and will be easily understood by the reader, in my opinion it reads less like a personal story and more like a long educational brochure on Alzheimer's disease and it's impact on both the patient and the caregiver. In fact, I would have PREFERRED to see this as a brochure (condensed to an abbreviated length) in a doctors office, hospital, PowerPoint presentation, college class, nursing facility/assisted living etc.Why? Because it talked more ABOUT the experience of spouse as caregiver then it did of the person suffering and didn't contain much detail on the day to day experiences or progression. Such as: what were the beginning symptoms for Elaine? Was she waking up throughout the night regularly and can anything be done to combat that? Did she ever ask you BEFORE becoming ill or just after to promise her you'd never put her in a nursing home? How did you handle having to change messy diapers? How did she handle that loss of privacy, dignity, and independence? How did the discussion begin regarding her driving? Did you just "lay down the law" so to speak and did she fight you verbally?What I'm trying to say is although the book is good and informative, I felt that it talked AT the reader. Do this, don't do this etc. Whereas I was looking for more of a personal story. Also I think I was hoping to read something that I could relate to as a disabled woman who's mom is suddenly and quite dramatically at times, showing cognitive issues, has had several severe falls, is unhappy in her marriage of 2 plus decades (they both are, and he doesn't talk to her, share a bed with her etc and hasn't in yrs) and is wanting to move to an apartment and live on her own. She is also very emotionally needy and the wife Elaine in this book was younger and much more independent!Over all, a decent read with valuable information.
5.0 out of 5 stars Great update
I've followed Marty Schrieber's book since the 1st edition. This is his latest and the new chapter with the Q & A is a great addition. If you have a friend or relative with concerns of dementia, this is a must read. It enlightens as to what the disease looks like and also points out the stress it causes for the caregiver. I keep a supply on hand and give one to anyone who faces this challenge for the first time.
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Imported From: United States
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Editorial Reviews
Review
'My Two Elaines provides real life lessons about how to cope and survive each day with loving care, particularly when communica-tion is lost. Marty helps caregivers work through their guilt and sheds light on making difficult decisions when professional care is needed for a loved one. Most of all, Marty brings us an amazing story of love, understanding, and hope. It is one of the most moving and powerful stories I've read.' -- Julie Tombari, administrator, New Day Adult Care Center, North Palm Beach, Florida
'At one moment this book is a heart-wrenching account of the devastating toll of Alzheimer's, and the next moment it is a heart rending love story. The minute you are holding your breath at the brutality of the disease, Marty rescues you with a concrete, doable message that can lead to lovely moments of joy. No health-care pro-fessional, family member, or caregiver should be without it.' -- Dawn Adler, director, Ovation Adult Day Services, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, coauthor of Illuminate: An Integrated Curriculum for Early Memory Loss Programs
'I encourage my fellow health-care professionals to read and share this book.' -- Judy Beiler, RN, director, Global and Executive Health Program, Aurora Health Care
'I only wish my father had this book to help him during my own mother's illness.' -- Paula Kiely, city librarian, Milwaukee Public Library
'If you or someone you know is a caregiver, this is a must-read. Your loved one really does become a different person. As I learned from my mom's dementia, learning how to deal with her was key to ev-eryone's sanity. There are many helpful hints here.' -- Bonnie Blair, five-time Olympic gold medalist
'Marty has truly captured the essence of loving and caring for some-body with this disease. His book is insightful, thoughtful, heart-warming, and respectful. Marty's sense of humor and abundant pa-tience surely are a blessing for Elaine.' -- Scott McFadden, president and CEO, Lutheran Home and Harwood Place, Milwaukee, Wisconsin
'Marty Schreiber has written a book that is invaluable to the Alz-heimer's community. His personal experience (and wisdom gained) as a caregiver is shared in such an honest and impactful way that it should be mandatory reading for all individuals who step forward in this capacity.' -- David Simbro, senior vice president, Northwestern Mutual former member, Alzheimer’s Association Board of Directors
'Marty shares his personal story with dignity and grace. My Two Elaines helps the caregiver realize you must take care of yourself, have a sense of humor, and take advantage of help to survive the stressful days ahead. It is a great resource for families.' -- Linda Cody, director, Village Walk Senior Living, Patchogue, New York
'This book is a godsend for anyone caring for a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer's.' -- Booklist
'This wonderful book gives a personal perspective of a couple's jour-ney with Alzheimer's disease as they reach out for help and support. The personal sharing, the compelling development of Marty, and his insights as a caregiver all provide for an important message.' -- Michael Malone, MD, medical director, Aurora Senior Services chair, Public Policy Committee, American Geriatrics Society
'To be complete, stories about Alzheimer's disease and caregiving must touch on both defeats and triumphs. In My Two Elaines, Gov-ernor Schreiber stirs the hearts of readers both with great suffering and great love inherent to the caregiving journey, lightening the load with humor. He introduces us not only to the woman he mar-ried and the person she became after Alzheimer's but also to the extraordinary individual who loves them both: her Marty.' -- Daniel C. Potts, MD, FAAN, attending neurologist, Tuscaloosa VA Medical Center, Alabama founder and president, Cognitive Dynamics Foundation
'With poignant clarity and candor, Schreiber provides readers with insight into the often incomprehensible world of a person living with Alzheimer's disease as well as the many challenges faced by family caregivers. My Two Elaines is easily integrated into health-care curriculum, sparking rich discussions related to dementia, caregiving, anticipatory grief, advance care planning, and commu-nity support services. Feedback has been overwhelmingly positive, with many learners expressing gratitude for the opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of the family caregiver experience.' -- Dr. Stacy Barnes, Director, Wisconsin Geriatric Education Center, Marquette University
'Your book is now at the top of my list; written from the heart, rein-forcing, yet honest.' -- Susan M. Gross, education and family care specialist, Alzheimer’s Association North Central Texas Chapter
About the Author
Former Wisconsin Governor Martin J. Schreiber is an award-winning crusader for Alzheimer's caregivers and persons with dementia. Reaching audiences nationwide at live events and via media, he uses humor and compassion to share lessons from his ongoing, decade-plus journey as a caregiver. Since 2017, Schreiber has given more than 400 presentations to audiences that include family and professional caregivers, healthcare workers, social workers, nursing and pharmacy students, civic and business leaders, senior community residents, library patrons, and more.
Prior to writing My Two Elaines--and while he still cared for his wife at home--Schreiber helped the Alzheimer's Association launch Operation: Stronger Together, beginning in 2015. This multiyear awareness program has helped the Southeastern Wisconsin chapter connect record numbers of families to education and resources that are vital to successful caregiving.
Schreiber also collaborated with Wisconsin's state government and business groups to help create the Dementia-Friendly Employers Toolkit, which is used by human resources departments and employee assistance programs. Such initiatives have led to Schreiber being recognized with awards from the Alzheimer’s Association and other organizations.
Schreiber's work on behalf of older citizens dates back decades, to his 16 years in public service as a state senator, lieutenant governor, and governor, where he focused on improved quality for nursing home care and development of the in-home Community Care Organization. He went on to become a successful insurance executive and publisher before he started his own government relations firm in 1988.
Schreiber attended Valparaiso University and the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee, and earned a doctorate of law from Marquette University.
He and his wife, Elaine, are the parents of four children, Kathryn Lyon, Martin Schreiber, Kristine Haas, and Matt Schreiber. They have 13 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren.
Reviews:
5.0 out of 5 stars The Caregiver’s Journey: An Emotional & Profound Pivot from What Was to What Is
"My Two Elaines" by Martin J. Schreiber is a moving and insightful account of one man's journey through the challenging and often heartbreaking landscape of Alzheimer's disease. As a former governor of Wisconsin, Schreiber is no stranger to leadership and resilience, but nothing could have prepared him for the deeply personal and transformative experience of caring for his wife, Elaine, as she battled Alzheimer's. This book is not only a tribute to Elaine but also a beacon of hope and guidance for other caregivers navigating similar paths.The central theme of "My Two Elaines" is the necessity of embracing the new reality of a loved one with dementia. Schreiber eloquently describes the process of letting go of the person you once knew and learning to connect with the new person they have become. This shift in perspective is crucial for both the patient and the caregiver, as it allows for a more compassionate and effective approach to care. Schreiber emphasizes that imposing our previous expectations on a loved one with dementia only leads to frustration and heartache. Instead, he advocates for "rolling with it," honoring the emotions and perceptions of those with cognitive diseases, even as they fluctuate from day to day.One of the most powerful aspects of the book is Schreiber's candid discussion of the dual nature of caregiving. He poignantly illustrates that there are two patients in this scenario: the person with Alzheimer's and the caregiver. Schreiber's honesty about his own struggles and the toll caregiving took on his physical and emotional well-being is both humbling and inspiring. He underscores the importance of self-care for caregivers, a message that cannot be overstated. Caregivers must prioritize their health and well-being to provide the best care possible for their loved ones.Schreiber's journey as a caregiver transformed him in profound ways, making him a "wounded prophet" who can empathize deeply with others facing similar challenges. His reflections on how caregiving requires immense love, understanding, and humility resonate deeply. There are no quick fixes or instant gratifications in this role; it demands a sacrifice of self and an unwavering commitment to the well-being of another.A standout feature of the book is the Q&A section with neuropsychologist Dr. Michelle Braun. This segment is a treasure trove of practical advice and insights, offering readers concrete strategies to empower themselves as advocates for their loved ones and their own needs. Dr. Braun's expertise and compassionate approach provide invaluable guidance on navigating the complex emotional and logistical challenges of caregiving."My Two Elaines" is peppered with entries from Elaine's journal, offering a poignant glimpse into her perspective and experiences. These entries add a deeply personal and humanizing touch to the narrative, reminding readers that behind the clinical diagnosis of Alzheimer's lies a unique individual with her own thoughts, feelings, and memories.Schreiber's candid reflections on what he wishes he had known earlier and done differently are particularly valuable. These insights offer readers a chance to learn from his experiences and potentially avoid some of the pitfalls he encountered. His emphasis on the importance of understanding Alzheimer's disease as a prerequisite for effective caregiving is a crucial takeaway. Knowledge is power, and understanding the disease can help caregivers cope with the many challenges they face.The book's afterword by Tom Hvalacek, former executive director of the Alzheimer's Association of Wisconsin, further reinforces the themes of resilience, adaptation, and the importance of support networks. Hvalacek introduces the concept of "the pivot," the emotional shift caregivers must make to let go of the person they once knew and embrace the new reality of their loved one's condition. This pivot is one of the hardest aspects of caregiving but is essential for emotional survival and the ability to continue providing compassionate care."My Two Elaines" is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the enduring power of love. Schreiber's journey is a beacon of hope for all caregivers, offering practical advice, emotional support, and a deep sense of shared experience. It is a must-read for anyone touched by Alzheimer's, providing both solace and inspiration in the face of one of life's most challenging journeys.
5.0 out of 5 stars Dementia book
This is a great book. It has helped me so much!
4.0 out of 5 stars Good addition to my Alzheimers collection.
I bought about 8 to 12 books on those caring for Alzheimer's loved ones from Bolo. This was a well-written book that was interesting to read, and I recommend for those caring for someone with this disease. Why didn't I give it a 5 star? I compare all my recent Alzheimer memoirs to On Pluto: Inside the Mind of Alzheimers. That book was written by the person suffering from the disease, followed by family's input at the end. That was my favorite Alzheimer's book out of the 8 to 12 I ordered.
5.0 out of 5 stars informative
Helpful information andadditional resources are sharedWell explained strategies for caregivers that might help to ease the journey for both patient and caregiver
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent condition and quick delivery
Love this book - heartwarming if you are dealing with anyone who has any type of dementia.
5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful
Gave this as a gift and she said it is very helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Informative But Dry
Although the book is well written and will be easily understood by the reader, in my opinion it reads less like a personal story and more like a long educational brochure on Alzheimer's disease and it's impact on both the patient and the caregiver. In fact, I would have PREFERRED to see this as a brochure (condensed to an abbreviated length) in a doctors office, hospital, PowerPoint presentation, college class, nursing facility/assisted living etc.Why? Because it talked more ABOUT the experience of spouse as caregiver then it did of the person suffering and didn't contain much detail on the day to day experiences or progression. Such as: what were the beginning symptoms for Elaine? Was she waking up throughout the night regularly and can anything be done to combat that? Did she ever ask you BEFORE becoming ill or just after to promise her you'd never put her in a nursing home? How did you handle having to change messy diapers? How did she handle that loss of privacy, dignity, and independence? How did the discussion begin regarding her driving? Did you just "lay down the law" so to speak and did she fight you verbally?What I'm trying to say is although the book is good and informative, I felt that it talked AT the reader. Do this, don't do this etc. Whereas I was looking for more of a personal story. Also I think I was hoping to read something that I could relate to as a disabled woman who's mom is suddenly and quite dramatically at times, showing cognitive issues, has had several severe falls, is unhappy in her marriage of 2 plus decades (they both are, and he doesn't talk to her, share a bed with her etc and hasn't in yrs) and is wanting to move to an apartment and live on her own. She is also very emotionally needy and the wife Elaine in this book was younger and much more independent!Over all, a decent read with valuable information.
5.0 out of 5 stars Great update
I've followed Marty Schrieber's book since the 1st edition. This is his latest and the new chapter with the Q & A is a great addition. If you have a friend or relative with concerns of dementia, this is a must read. It enlightens as to what the disease looks like and also points out the stress it causes for the caregiver. I keep a supply on hand and give one to anyone who faces this challenge for the first time.
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