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The Maria Paradox

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Explains how Hispanic women can integrate Latin cultural traditions with a North American way of life to balance career and family demands, find help with emotional problems, stand up for one's feelings and rights, and enhance self-esteem.
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The authors--a psychotherapist and a psychologist--have written a book expressly for Latinas, taking as their premise the idea that there is a profound clash between traditional values and culture and the opportunities and expectations Latinas find in the U.S. At the core of the Maria paradox is the concept of marianismo, already defined in academic literature but, according to the authors, made available to the general reader for the first time in this book. Marianismo is for Latinas what machismo is for Latino men, a set of cultural expectations that can define and also limit behavior. Among the "10 commandments" of marianismo are "do not forget a woman's place," "do not forsake tradition," "do not be single, self-supporting, or independent minded," and "do not wish for more in life than being a housewife." Using exercises and case studies, the authors examine the impact of marianismo on mother-daughter relationships, workplace issues, sexual behavior, marriage, and parenting. They then discuss avenues for change. A useful and readable book for most libraries serving Hispanic populations. Mary Ellen Quinn

About the Author

Carmen Inoa Vazquez, Ph.D., ABPP, is a clinical associate professor at New York University School of Medicine.

Reviews:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great therapeutic tool for Clinicians

y. · December 15, 2009

This is an old but classic book regarding the treatment approach for Latina clients in therapeutic settings. Clinicians of all backgrounds should take time to read and digest. Not only is it good in the process of understanding Latina clients but it has worked well with the constructs carried over by Italian, Portuguese and clients from other countries. It is recommended to have a Spanish speaking or a bicultural person nearby in order to discuss some of the words and concepts in italics.Got at least 5 used books as gifts for my colleagues!

5.0 out of 5 stars A true gem

C.M. · March 13, 2009

I came across this book in my therapist's office. I wanted my own copy and found it hard to find online. I got it from Housing Works through Bolo and it was a great deal for an organization that does great work. I used to live in NYC and popped into Housing Works anytime I had a chance. It's great to find them online also.

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Read!

Y.C. · February 21, 2014

As a Latina woman, who is doing research on the transmission of gender-role expectations, this book is a must have! Really happy with the purchased!

5.0 out of 5 stars Yes!

j. · January 30, 2017

This book is a great depiction of the struggles Latinas go through in modern times.

5.0 out of 5 stars Good

N.D. · May 18, 2015

arrived in good condition.stories are very useful for the subject matter.

5.0 out of 5 stars Soul Saving

L. · August 30, 2000

I am first generation Mexican American and I had been struggling with a lot of the very same issues that the book talks about. It has explained many things to me about the Latino culture that I could not before put into words. It has helped me so very much to first of all, know that I am not alone and am not crazy, and secondly, that there are ways to deal with this conflict of having two cultures in a healthy more productive manner rather than simply becoming enchilada. My friends and I have had very very very lengthy discussions about the subjects of having two cultures, dealing with our moms who were born and raised in the Old World Traditions, experienced suffering and humiliation for not being traditional and particularly the difficulty of finding the 'ideal' man versus getting the 'real' man. This book has put words to my old feelings and I am eternally grateful. It is, by far, one of the most enlightening and soul saving books I have ever read - and I read A LOT!

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Type: Hardcover

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Imported From: United States

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BOLO is not an authorized or official retailer for most brands, nor are we affiliated with manufacturers unless specifically stated on a product page. Instead, we source verified sellers, authorized distributors or directly from the manufacturer.

Each product undergoes thorough inspection and verification at our consolidation and fulfilment centers to ensure it meets our strict authenticity and quality standards before being shipped and delivered to you.

If you ever have concerns regarding the authenticity of a product purchased from us, please contact Bolo Support. We will review your inquiry promptly and, if necessary, provide documentation verifying authenticity or offer a suitable resolution.

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Unless otherwise stated, all prices displayed on the product page include applicable taxes and import duties.

BOLO operates in accordance with the laws and regulations of United Arab Emirates. Any items found to be restricted or prohibited for sale within the UAE will be cancelled prior to shipment. We take proactive measures to ensure that only products permitted for sale in United Arab Emirates are listed on our website.

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Description:

Explains how Hispanic women can integrate Latin cultural traditions with a North American way of life to balance career and family demands, find help with emotional problems, stand up for one's feelings and rights, and enhance self-esteem.
Read more

Editorial Reviews

From Booklist

The authors--a psychotherapist and a psychologist--have written a book expressly for Latinas, taking as their premise the idea that there is a profound clash between traditional values and culture and the opportunities and expectations Latinas find in the U.S. At the core of the Maria paradox is the concept of marianismo, already defined in academic literature but, according to the authors, made available to the general reader for the first time in this book. Marianismo is for Latinas what machismo is for Latino men, a set of cultural expectations that can define and also limit behavior. Among the "10 commandments" of marianismo are "do not forget a woman's place," "do not forsake tradition," "do not be single, self-supporting, or independent minded," and "do not wish for more in life than being a housewife." Using exercises and case studies, the authors examine the impact of marianismo on mother-daughter relationships, workplace issues, sexual behavior, marriage, and parenting. They then discuss avenues for change. A useful and readable book for most libraries serving Hispanic populations. Mary Ellen Quinn

About the Author

Carmen Inoa Vazquez, Ph.D., ABPP, is a clinical associate professor at New York University School of Medicine.

Reviews:

5.0 out of 5 stars Great therapeutic tool for Clinicians

y. · December 15, 2009

This is an old but classic book regarding the treatment approach for Latina clients in therapeutic settings. Clinicians of all backgrounds should take time to read and digest. Not only is it good in the process of understanding Latina clients but it has worked well with the constructs carried over by Italian, Portuguese and clients from other countries. It is recommended to have a Spanish speaking or a bicultural person nearby in order to discuss some of the words and concepts in italics.Got at least 5 used books as gifts for my colleagues!

5.0 out of 5 stars A true gem

C.M. · March 13, 2009

I came across this book in my therapist's office. I wanted my own copy and found it hard to find online. I got it from Housing Works through Bolo and it was a great deal for an organization that does great work. I used to live in NYC and popped into Housing Works anytime I had a chance. It's great to find them online also.

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Read!

Y.C. · February 21, 2014

As a Latina woman, who is doing research on the transmission of gender-role expectations, this book is a must have! Really happy with the purchased!

5.0 out of 5 stars Yes!

j. · January 30, 2017

This book is a great depiction of the struggles Latinas go through in modern times.

5.0 out of 5 stars Good

N.D. · May 18, 2015

arrived in good condition.stories are very useful for the subject matter.

5.0 out of 5 stars Soul Saving

L. · August 30, 2000

I am first generation Mexican American and I had been struggling with a lot of the very same issues that the book talks about. It has explained many things to me about the Latino culture that I could not before put into words. It has helped me so very much to first of all, know that I am not alone and am not crazy, and secondly, that there are ways to deal with this conflict of having two cultures in a healthy more productive manner rather than simply becoming enchilada. My friends and I have had very very very lengthy discussions about the subjects of having two cultures, dealing with our moms who were born and raised in the Old World Traditions, experienced suffering and humiliation for not being traditional and particularly the difficulty of finding the 'ideal' man versus getting the 'real' man. This book has put words to my old feelings and I am eternally grateful. It is, by far, one of the most enlightening and soul saving books I have ever read - and I read A LOT!

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