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Beyond Bullying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Bullying, and Violence

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The first book to integrate shame research into a single overarching theory

· Why are some kids magnets for bullying?
· Why do gay teens commit suicide four times as frequently as "straight" teens?
· Why do we have more men and women in prison than any other country in the world?
· Why are school shootings and acts of domestic terrorism on the rise?

What could possibly be the theme that ties all of these questions together, which provides a window into so many aspects of the darker aspects of human behavior? In a word, shame.
Shame is a powerful and complex emotion, capable of producing dramatic reactions from even the most mild-mannered people. While shame can be employed in positive ways, such as teaching children good manners, other types of shame can be devastating, or even lethal. However, few people truly understand the role of shame in acts of bullying, violence, and discrimination.

In Beyond Bullying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Bullying, and Violence, veteran professor of social work Jonathan Fast deftly weaves together research from the fields of psychology, sociology, economics, and history to create a single overarching theory of shame. The book introduces the concept of "weaponized shame," a toxic and intentional attack on another person, noting that weaponized shame is often at the heart of bullying situations. With clear, straightforward language, Dr. Fast traces the nuances of shame through several common types of bullying, highlighting bullying based on sexuality, gender, and race. Noting the pervasive presence of weaponized shame in American culture, Beyond Bullying extends shame theory to acts of domestic violence, racism, school shootings, and domestic terrorism. The issues that cause bullying are not limited to the schoolyard, but rather are responsible for horrific acts of violence across the nation.

Beyond mere theory, the book provides concrete suggestions for healthy ways of dealing with shame, including techniques for diffusing potentially harmful situations. An invaluable resource for parents of bullied children, Beyond Bullying will also appeal to teachers, counselors, and social workers.
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Editorial Reviews

Review

"Jonathan Fast's new book Beyond Bullying brings new understanding to the dynamic of bullying. This well documented book uses a perfect combination of scientific literature, historical references, and current events. It is informative, entertaining, and important." --Harold S. Koplewicz, MD, President, Child Mind Institute

"Fast delves into the psychology and sociology of shame and concludes that this powerful emotion is I^the common thread explaining the recent rise in domestic terrorism and gun violence, school and online bullying, and suicide among adolescents. He hopes that by understanding shame-why we feel it and how it can fester-we can develop strategies to prevent the acts of violence and hate that are motivated by it." --Scientific American MIND

"In this impressive book on an important and timely topic, Fast offers a comprehensive review of the relatively scant literature on shame as a psychological phenomenon." --Library Journal

"If Malcolm Gladwell were to write about bullying, the result might look something like Jonathan Fast's Beyond Bullying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Bullying, and Violence. Fast draws upon underlying historical themes, shocking facts about perpetrators, and revealing studies to make his case that there is one thread throughout all bullying: shame." --PsychCentral

"Jonathan Fast's Beyond Bullying is worth a serious read." --Metapsychology

Featured in Out Magazine

Book Description

Presents the facts about shame theory and shame management, and how it shapes our lives, turning some of us into saints and some of us into sinners.

Reviews:

5.0 out of 5 stars Important and compelling reading for anyone seeking to understand the ...

A.C. · November 21, 2015

Important and compelling reading for anyone seeking to understand the causes of violent behavior and the techniques we can employ to prevent such behaviors.

5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars

R. · March 11, 2016

Great book and great service!

5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful guide to understanding the dynamics of the bully & the target

M.M. · April 14, 2016

good overall review.

4.0 out of 5 stars Hard on the heart

K.M.W. · September 1, 2018

This was a hard read. Not to understand, but to absorb and try not to let it get to you. As a teacher, the school shooting hit home. The Bath incident is also described in detail, and as a life-long resident of Michigan we hadn't learned about that in school. I've been teaching since children were told to stay in the library. As a parent, my children underwent active shooter training at school.It was good to see the restorative justices mentioned at the close of this text. There is hope. We can and should do more to stop the senseless violence.

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Selection

B.S. · March 25, 2019

The author did an amazing job of illustrating his points through vivid explanations. I enjoy books of this caliber, because they make it virtually impossible to overlook the message.

5.0 out of 5 stars Thought Provoking Study of Shame

W.S. · October 26, 2015

A learned and wide-ranging discourse on the social and psychological consequences of abuse of power, placing the phenomenon of school shootings and teen suicides in a broader setting that emphasizes the feeling of shame that can emerge from being bullied. The author draws on literature, history, and academic studies to develop his arguments, and caps the discussion with a plea to replace retributive justice with processes that aim at reconciliation between aggressor and victim.

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Beyond Bullying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Bullying, and Violence

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Condition: New

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Type: Hardcover

AED19447

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Availability: In Stock

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Delivery fee of AED 20. Free for orders above AED 200.

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Imported From: United States

At BOLO, we work hard to ensure the products you receive are new, genuine, and sourced from reputable suppliers.

BOLO is not an authorized or official retailer for most brands, nor are we affiliated with manufacturers unless specifically stated on a product page. Instead, we source verified sellers, authorized distributors or directly from the manufacturer.

Each product undergoes thorough inspection and verification at our consolidation and fulfilment centers to ensure it meets our strict authenticity and quality standards before being shipped and delivered to you.

If you ever have concerns regarding the authenticity of a product purchased from us, please contact Bolo Support. We will review your inquiry promptly and, if necessary, provide documentation verifying authenticity or offer a suitable resolution.

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BOLO operates in accordance with the laws and regulations of United Arab Emirates. Any items found to be restricted or prohibited for sale within the UAE will be cancelled prior to shipment. We take proactive measures to ensure that only products permitted for sale in United Arab Emirates are listed on our website.

All items are shipped by air, and any products classified as “Dangerous Goods (DG)” under IATA regulations will be removed from the order and cancelled.

All orders are processed manually, and we make every effort to process them promptly once confirmed. Products cancelled due to the above reasons will be permanently removed from listings across the website.

Description:

The first book to integrate shame research into a single overarching theory

· Why are some kids magnets for bullying?
· Why do gay teens commit suicide four times as frequently as "straight" teens?
· Why do we have more men and women in prison than any other country in the world?
· Why are school shootings and acts of domestic terrorism on the rise?

What could possibly be the theme that ties all of these questions together, which provides a window into so many aspects of the darker aspects of human behavior? In a word, shame.
Shame is a powerful and complex emotion, capable of producing dramatic reactions from even the most mild-mannered people. While shame can be employed in positive ways, such as teaching children good manners, other types of shame can be devastating, or even lethal. However, few people truly understand the role of shame in acts of bullying, violence, and discrimination.

In Beyond Bullying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Bullying, and Violence, veteran professor of social work Jonathan Fast deftly weaves together research from the fields of psychology, sociology, economics, and history to create a single overarching theory of shame. The book introduces the concept of "weaponized shame," a toxic and intentional attack on another person, noting that weaponized shame is often at the heart of bullying situations. With clear, straightforward language, Dr. Fast traces the nuances of shame through several common types of bullying, highlighting bullying based on sexuality, gender, and race. Noting the pervasive presence of weaponized shame in American culture, Beyond Bullying extends shame theory to acts of domestic violence, racism, school shootings, and domestic terrorism. The issues that cause bullying are not limited to the schoolyard, but rather are responsible for horrific acts of violence across the nation.

Beyond mere theory, the book provides concrete suggestions for healthy ways of dealing with shame, including techniques for diffusing potentially harmful situations. An invaluable resource for parents of bullied children, Beyond Bullying will also appeal to teachers, counselors, and social workers.
Read more

Editorial Reviews

Review

"Jonathan Fast's new book Beyond Bullying brings new understanding to the dynamic of bullying. This well documented book uses a perfect combination of scientific literature, historical references, and current events. It is informative, entertaining, and important." --Harold S. Koplewicz, MD, President, Child Mind Institute

"Fast delves into the psychology and sociology of shame and concludes that this powerful emotion is I^the common thread explaining the recent rise in domestic terrorism and gun violence, school and online bullying, and suicide among adolescents. He hopes that by understanding shame-why we feel it and how it can fester-we can develop strategies to prevent the acts of violence and hate that are motivated by it." --Scientific American MIND

"In this impressive book on an important and timely topic, Fast offers a comprehensive review of the relatively scant literature on shame as a psychological phenomenon." --Library Journal

"If Malcolm Gladwell were to write about bullying, the result might look something like Jonathan Fast's Beyond Bullying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame, Bullying, and Violence. Fast draws upon underlying historical themes, shocking facts about perpetrators, and revealing studies to make his case that there is one thread throughout all bullying: shame." --PsychCentral

"Jonathan Fast's Beyond Bullying is worth a serious read." --Metapsychology

Featured in Out Magazine

Book Description

Presents the facts about shame theory and shame management, and how it shapes our lives, turning some of us into saints and some of us into sinners.

Reviews:

5.0 out of 5 stars Important and compelling reading for anyone seeking to understand the ...

A.C. · November 21, 2015

Important and compelling reading for anyone seeking to understand the causes of violent behavior and the techniques we can employ to prevent such behaviors.

5.0 out of 5 stars Five Stars

R. · March 11, 2016

Great book and great service!

5.0 out of 5 stars Helpful guide to understanding the dynamics of the bully & the target

M.M. · April 14, 2016

good overall review.

4.0 out of 5 stars Hard on the heart

K.M.W. · September 1, 2018

This was a hard read. Not to understand, but to absorb and try not to let it get to you. As a teacher, the school shooting hit home. The Bath incident is also described in detail, and as a life-long resident of Michigan we hadn't learned about that in school. I've been teaching since children were told to stay in the library. As a parent, my children underwent active shooter training at school.It was good to see the restorative justices mentioned at the close of this text. There is hope. We can and should do more to stop the senseless violence.

5.0 out of 5 stars Great Selection

B.S. · March 25, 2019

The author did an amazing job of illustrating his points through vivid explanations. I enjoy books of this caliber, because they make it virtually impossible to overlook the message.

5.0 out of 5 stars Thought Provoking Study of Shame

W.S. · October 26, 2015

A learned and wide-ranging discourse on the social and psychological consequences of abuse of power, placing the phenomenon of school shootings and teen suicides in a broader setting that emphasizes the feeling of shame that can emerge from being bullied. The author draws on literature, history, and academic studies to develop his arguments, and caps the discussion with a plea to replace retributive justice with processes that aim at reconciliation between aggressor and victim.

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